Do you think this is wrong or is it understandable?
Life is getting more and more expensive. Everything from our bills to weekly food shop has increased. We’re trying to cut corners, but we’re struggling to make ends meet with communions, school expenses, and birthday parties.
One mum is feeling conflicted about attending a birthday party with her child because she can’t afford to buy them a gift.
She told Mumsnet, “My child has been invited to a birthday party, I’ve never not taken a gift when it’s been a child’s birthday party but currently have no money whatsoever.”
“Would it be unreasonable/cheeky/embarrassing to still take my child?
“They really want to go but I feel put off because of this!”
Many mums agreed that it would be unfair not to bring a gift, but others said it was completely understandable.
“I wouldn’t mind if it was my child’s party. Particularly if I knew you were having money troubles. Do you know the parents? Could you let them know?” one suggested.
Another said she should just buy something cheap from Poundland.
However, one said it isn’t about the gifts but who the child celebrates with.
“If someone had come to my child’s birthday party without a present because of that reason then I’d have been fine with it – I’d maybe have appreciated a heads up in advance though so I could stop any embarrassing moments of my child shouting out ‘where’s my present!?'”
Another added, “You won’t be the only parent worrying about affording a gift.”
What do you think?
