Because it’s not always easy.
One mum’s heartfelt account of the difficulties of breastfeeding has struck a chord with other mothers.
Angela Burzo took to Instagram to share her struggles with feeding her daughter and although her post isn’t new, it has been shared again online this week.
In the caption accompanying this photo, the mum-of-two wrote about how frustrating breastfeeding her 13-day old daughter could be.
“I love seeing all these beautiful women in their beautiful nursing clothes smiling down at their babes as they lovingly look up back at them hand in hand while breastfeeding away.
“That is not my reality, right now that is. This is real & as much as I want to stay strong and be the soldier I feel I can be I cannot hide the struggle that is BREASTFEEDING.
“Whether she is not latching on properly, whether I am not producing enough milk to keep up with her demand, whether my nipples might not be adequate, whether we confused her with having to give her a bottle after pumping….whatever it may be it has been an emotional & painful struggle.
“Today has been full of no naps, sucking and not eating, crying and frustrated parents.
“This photo depicts my reality of this Breastfeeding journey so far & that first latch & the pain I endure. Keeping it real.”
Angela’s words resonated with other mums who shared words of solidarity and support in the comments.
“I feel your pain. I have had my days too when I feel like screaming and crying and just thinking of stopping it all together. It gets better and I hope it gets better for you as well.”
“No one told me how hard it would be. The first three months were just painful — but keep going because then it IS beautiful! You are beautiful!”
“You’re doing great mama! We’re all in the same boat!”
Breastfeeding is a personal parenting choice, but this is a refreshing reminder that not everyone finds breastfeeding easy or even can breastfeed, even when they want to.
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