If your children are not tidying their room, it means someone else is, and we all know who that is going to be!
Giving your children chores has now been proven to scientifically contribute to their success in later life.
Thank you, science, I owe you one.
Speaking during a TED talks event called “How To Raise An Adult,” Julie Lythcott-Haims, former Dean of Freshmen at Stanford University says if children do not do chores;
“They’re absolved of not only the work, but of learning that work has to be done and that each one of us must contribute to the betterment of the whole”
She believes that those kids raised on chores are more likely to continue on to be good employees who work well in a team environment and are more empathetic because they can take on tasks independently.
Helping at home teaches children that:
1. Contributing to the home reaps benefits (tidier home, happier parents)
2. Better life partner (my husband pitches into the housework as that’s how he was raised)
3. Children really do enjoy helping out. It boosts their self-esteem, and they often take great pride in their work. They also love getting praise from Mummy.
4. Allowing your children to pack their own bag and lay out their own clothes helps build a sense of personal responsibility.
5. Helping parents with chores can also reduce much of the work for parents. This teamwork benefits everyone in the long run (more time for family fun)
I remember we each had a job when we were younger. I cleaned mirrors; my brother hoovered, and my sister polished. Now my children are still very little, but they love getting the baby wipes and help with the skirting boards and doorways. They usually tire after about ten minutes, but I see the pride they take in their mini achievements.
So next time your two-year-old flings her cereal across the room, hand her the wipes and congratulate yourself on raising a future employee of the year. Win win.
Why not check out How Chores Increase Once Baby Starts Walking
