Becoming a grandparent for the first time is a big deal.
Even better is the fact that Nana and Grandad get to relive all the fun of parenthood, without the sleepless nights. However, being a new grandparent also brings with it a share of the concerns and responsibilities.
Here are five tips to help you adapt to your new role with ease:
1. When it comes to new baby gifts, think practical
Very often the best new baby gifts are not expensive, but practical. New mums and dads are usually inundated with cute baby clothes so a supply of nappies, muslin cloths, or other useful items are always welcome. The most important gift, of course is something money can’t buy – having someone to take care of daily practicalities. Looking after baba while parents get some shut-eye, running shopping errands, giving the kitchen a quick clean, and other seemingly small jobs can make a big difference to the lives of new parents.
2. Know when to keep schtum
Yes, grandparents have done (and seen) it all before with their own, but remember that when it comes to raising children, parents have the last word. New parents will have their own philosophies on all things baby and child related. Mums and dads sometimes have to learn the hard way, so try to avoid the temptation to take over in a classic ‘Nana knows best’ style. It won’t do you any favours in the early days.
3. Capture some memories
Often, new mums and dads are so caught up in the responsibilities and anxieties that come with having a tiny baby, that they can forget to appreciate the small joys. Grandparents are in an ideal position to capture and record little moments for posterity. Being on hand to snap some unposed photos or get a little video footage, means Nana and Grandad can create something that will be treasured by later generations of the family.
4. Remember to share and play nice
Bear in mind that there are other grandparents (and sometimes step-grandparents) to share the new grandchild love with. If you haven’t socialised much with the other side of the family, consider planning an informal get-together or social occasion to get to know them better. After all, you’ll be sharing something pretty special and important from here on in.
5. Buy some spares
Consider getting some spare baby equipment for your own house. There’s no need to buy the best of everything for occasional use, but doubling up will save mum and dad having to pack up the boot of the car in advance of a visit. Grandparents who have their own car seats deserve a special nod of recognition!
