Ouch.

Usually, the day you get engaged is one full of love, excitement for the future and cherished memories. However, if you're taken by surprise or less than impressed by the rock, it can leave a different kind of memory with you. For one bride-to-be her engagement is just a reminder of the day she was given a "little a**ring". Speaking on Reddit post-engagement, one bride is searching for advice on whether or not to kick up a fuss about the ring she has been given. Sharing a photo of the ring here - the woman wrote:

"We been together for eight years and talking about getting married for almost three.

"This is the ring he said he saved up to buy me. Am I being shady or materialistic if I tell this mf ion want this little a** ring?"

And her question has divided an audience. Some dubbed it as the "saddest ring they've ever seen" while others loved it calling it "modern", hmmm.

"I think I'd be more insulted to be given this ring than no ring at all. Like, just skip the ring altogether if you can't afford it. That's just embarrassing" wrote one Reddit user.

While another added...

"It's very dainty. I love dainty jewellery. But good lord that looks like if she makes a fist it's going to snap!"

One to hash out before the "I dos" we hope.