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25th June 2019
03:36pm BST

"My kids are still only young. Youngest is 4. Other children in surrounding houses play out but my husband and I aren't comfortable with ours doing that yet as they aren't road aware etc enough to be trusted. "I will occasionally go out with them and watch them but I don't want to be doing that all the time. We have a large garden with lots of play things and hubby and I want to sit out and relax in our own garden with our own kids and pets. "They are begging to go out almost every day. I've explained as best as I can but it causes lots of arguments. The other children also knock on for them. "I know people feel differently about it, some don't mind at all which is fine. But it's driving me mad that my kids are getting so upset and it's making me feel a bad mum, but if I give in then I'm doing something I don't agree with. Any advice?"Many mums replied to the thread, with the majority saying that they don't like their children playing on the street. One said:
"There are tiny children playing on the street near ours and maybe I’m just over anxious but I feel it’s an accident waiting to happen. Some of them venture onto the road to play on the bikes and scooters even at 4-5. Scares me!"While another wrote:
"Yes we don't mind them playing in ours but we don't want it every day or every weekend. Our kids have friends over and they go to others houses so they do socialise, it's just this that causes problems."What do you think about this?