"I used a nannycam to make sure my husband was cleaning"
Taking to the forum-based website, the woman explains she and her husband are in their early 30s, and he is currently not working because of "some medical issues." He does however get benefits, so makes some contribution, and manages the cooking and cleaning when she's at work.
But it doesn't always work out, with dinner often not being cooked, laundry not folded, or no cleaning done.
"He told me that he did clean during the day and take care of the house and our backyard and dog, or my kids when it's my week to have them," the woman explains.
"I do take his health into consideration and he's good about letting me know when he's having a bad day health-wise, but I believed he was using it as an excuse."
Then, things get a little more murky when a colleague of the woman suggests using nanny cams to get, "proof of him not holding up [their] arrangement."
The woman watched camera footage for three weeks, learning that her husband did indeed cook and perform household chores - just not quite to her standard.
However, she still felt the situation needed addressing.
"I told him that I put up the cams and was watching to see what he did all day and was pleased to see he was doing stuff and admitted I had been wrong," she writes.
Naturally, the woman's husband was "upset" to discover her spying – although she still defended herself by claiming she was trying to end their argument.
And to be fair – she later edited her Reddit post to explain that she has apologised to her husband and that she is working to regain his trust.
"This is creepy behaviour"
Unsurprisinlgy maybe, other Reddit users were firmly on the husband's side.
"Swap the genders and see if you think that's still a good idea," one user, who was clearly male, wrote. "If I did that to my wife, she'd probably file for divorce."
Another one added, "This is creepy behavior. OP's husband should feel violated and should have lost all trust for his wife. OP made a huge mistake. Instead, OP should learn to communicate."
Others were quick to point out how shocking the women behaved considering her husband was sick – too sick to work – and yet she expected him to be well enough to keep up with housework.
"Your poor husband is sick, he's so sick he can't work and has qualified for disability assistance, and yet you're treating him like some kind of unpaid maid?" one person pointed out.
"And then you have the nerve to spy on him and rub salt into the wound?"
Another Reddit user added:
"He has health problems. Enough health problems that he is on disability. He isn't going to spotlessly clean the house every day. He needs to be focused on his health. Chores are fine but he isn't home because he wants to be a homemaker and a stay-at-home stepparent."
What do YOU think? Was the woman in the wrong? Or did she do what she did simply becase an unfair amount of housework fell on her? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. 
