My kids are obsessed with the hilariously fun baking show Nailed It on Netflix.
And if you have watched it, you can’t have helped, I bet, just laughing out loud at both the disastrous baking fails and Nicole Byer’s hilarious hosting. She is flamboyant and vibrant and so, so brilliant.
However, in light of recent weeks’ events in the US, Byer clearly felt compelled to remind white parents that liking Black people on TV is not the same thing as standing up for them in real life.
In a recent Instagram post, Byer explained how amid the public discourse happening in the US right now, one of her followers recently commented on one of Byer’s Black Lives Matter posts to say that they would just “keep their head down and just let their kids watch nailed it.”
Byer, correctly, points out that ‘keeping one’s head down’ is not enough. Parents, she says, have to get their heads in the game, especially those raising white kids.
“That made me boo hoo hoo,” Byer wrote. “That you will allow your kid to watch me but not stand up for me. So I’ll do the work I’ll write you a conversation to have with your white child.”
Byer offers this script for white parents who aren’t sure how to teach their children that Black Lives Matter.
“[Y]ou like this black lady right? She’s silly? She makes you tee hee hee? You would be sad if a police officer hurt her right?”
“Well this is the current country we live in where someone you like can be hurt by the colour of their skin,” she writes, adding that the people in charge are not doing anything about this problem.
The TV host ends her post by suggesting parents read about black history to their children and educate them on important chapters in American history.