“It sends out all these little messages and helps with the organs, helps tweak whatever needs to be strengthened and that DNA is left behind. So if you’ve carried a boy, it’s in your DNA. They never leave you.”

Myleene’s words moved host Anna to tears, with the presenter responding: ‘That is I think probably one of the most beautiful things I have ever learned.”

Microchimerism

In a post to her Instagram later about the episode, Anne wrote:

“Please don’t read on unless you have someone to support you. It’s hard-hitting.

I don’t know who needs to hear this but after losing five babies over the last ten years, I needed to:

It is true. Your baby’s DNA stays with you with every pregnancy. “They never leave you” as @myleeneklass said on @dirtymotherpukka.

But I want the scientific facts cemented here:

The name for it is ‘microchimerism’. The most recent research was done at Leiden University Medical Centre: “We can confirm mothers almost always acquire foetal cells with every pregnancy.”

The bit that got me was this from Dr J Lee Nelson: “these cells become beating heart cells.”

Our babies are always in our hearts. I can’t stop crying thinking of the little lives that have been with me all this time.

I hope it gives you some of the peace and catharsis I have felt since learning this. I also hope women who have miscarried are told this by the medical profession instead of hearing ‘just wait for the inviable foetus to pass’.

It would have helped me to know this. It would have helped to know they never really left.”