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Published 14:34 15 May 2026 BST
Brought to you by Belong To
For over 20 years, Belong To has been a cornerstone of support for LGBTQ+ young people in Ireland. With recent estimates suggesting that roughly 6–10% of the population identifies as LGBTQ+, these young people are a vibrant part of our schools, neighbourhood and local communities.
When a child shares their LGBTQ+ identity, it marks the beginning of a new chapter for the whole family. For many parents, this moment is filled with a deep desire to be supportive, often alongside a natural wish to understand what the future looks like for their child.
The team at Belong To recognise that while parents want the very best for their children, ‘coming out’ can sometimes feel like a steep learning curve. It is common for parents to have questions or to feel overwhelmed by new terminology and information.
To meet the growing needs of families, Belong To launched a dedicated Family Support Service in 2024. This service provides a compassionate, non-judgmental environment where parents can find clarity and confidence as they navigate their child’s journey.
"This is a great service for families who are going through such a journey. It's fantastic that we can get the advice and support that will help our children flourish as who they really are. I just want my child to be happy in his own skin." – Parent & Service User.
One of the most important messages Belong To offers is that no parent has to walk this path alone. The Family Support Service helps families:
As one parent recently shared after using the service: "It was encouraging to hear that nobody is expected to know everything all at once... It gave me an insight into the supportive LGBTQ+ community that I guess I am now part of as a parent of a transgender young person!"
Below, Edel, Family Support Officer at Belong To, answers some of the most common questions from parents:
Q: My child just told me they are LGBTQ+. I want to be supportive, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed. What should I do first?
Edel: "First, take a breath and recognise that your young person trusted you with their true self - that speaks volumes about the bond you share. It is completely natural to feel a mix of emotions or uncertainty about the future. What your child needs most right now is simply to know they are loved. Simple things like saying 'I’m so glad you told me' or 'I love you no matter what' provide the safety they need while you take the time you need to learn and adapt."
Q: My partner and I are at different stages of understanding our child’s news. How can we stay on the same page?
Edel: "It is very common for parents to move at different speeds. What often helps is giving each other time to process. You are already doing something incredibly important by being a steady, accepting presence for your son or daughter. Encourage your partner to ask questions and stay focused on your shared love for your child. Keeping things open and honest will make a huge difference as your family works through this together."
Access Support Today
The Belong To Family Support Service offers free, confidential, one-to-one support for families across Ireland. Support can be accessed in-person or online, providing resources and information tailored to your family's needs.
"Belong To has been a great support to me and my children," says one mother. "In a world that looks momentarily to be against them, I have felt like Belong To has had our back. They support me in my care for my children."
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