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14th July 2022
01:52am BST
1.Prepare financially.
One of the biggest stressors of going to college can be finances.
So have a conversation as a family about money. Help your graduate make a monthly budget for their first term in college.
Include what financial support sources: family support, financial aid, employment, etc.
2. Make sure the college to-do list for registration is completed.
Are they registered for and attended registration? Have they got all the books and materials they need? Have they registered for their classes? Does their college require a COVID-19 vaccine?
Every college is different in what it will require but having a to-do list will keep everyone on track.
3.Create a countdown calendar for Day 1 for the whole family to be aware of important dates.
This helps the entire family prepare for the transition of having a college student in the family (particularly if the student will be living at college).
4.Tour campus/rental on your own time.
Not every student will be living away from home but if they are take a walking tour of the campus as a family to see where buildings, parking, and important places on campus are located before the first day of class.
If you can't visit campus as a family, do a virtual tour, or explore campus using Google Street View. Let younger siblings help find fun spots on campus and be sure to check out multiple routes.
5.Get set up with technology.
Today more than ever, technology is part of the college experience. Colleges also use different systems, including email, student portals, and other methods to communicate with students and families.
Has your student activated their college email? Are they checking the email frequently for information, next steps, and important deadlines? Do they have access to a laptop or computer for their college classes?
If they do not have access, what services are available through the college?
All of these things are good to sort out before the start of term.
6.Talk about college together.
Allow for space for your graduate to talk about college in general.
What are they excited about? What makes them nervous? How can you best support them as a family? What are some expectations you have of each other during this journey?
7.Establish a family communication plan for the first six weeks of college.
The first six weeks of college can be a foundation for the rest of a student's first year, including the first opportunity to join groups, make connections, while also getting their first college grades.
Have a plan for how as a family you will touch base, whether they are going away to college or commuting. Schedule a weekly touchpoint to have a conversation about how they are doing.Explore more on these topics:
