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16th December 2021
09:51am GMT

Benesh was 11 when she found out that her father had sold her for USD$3,000, but she didn’t know what it meant to be married.
"I thought I was going to a fun picnic. That’s when I was told, ‘you are married now, and this is your husband. You won’t be seeing your family anymore’. I was terrified and filled with anguish. I kept crying and crying. Other children in my new family kept trying to play games with me to try to distract me and, I think, to try to make me feel more comfortable."Now 14-years-old Benesh is pregnant with her second child and being cared for at a World Vision mobile health unit while also learning about contraception and the healthy timing and spacing of pregnancies. [caption id="attachment_378074" align="aligncenter" width="662"]
Benesh age 14[/caption]
“If I saw my family again today, I would tell them that they shouldn’t have married me off. Girls my age should not be married. We should we encouraged to stay in school and get a good education. I am illiterate. I often see other girls my age still going to school, but I can only watch, I wish I could go to school too. I miss my friends. I miss learning new things, doing maths, becoming better at different subjects, and playing at the lunchbreak. Now, that part of my life is over. I don’t want this life for my children. It’s not fair."Benesh hasn’t had any contact with her family for three years. If Benesh gives birth to a girl, she wants her daughter to be educated and have a chance for a better life than she has.
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