John Legend’s wife is not new new to the mummy shame game. In the past, she’s been called out from everything to bouncing back after giving birth to enjoying dinner out with her husband a few days after her daughter was born.

“I knew mommy shaming was a thing, but I didn’t think it would come from going to dinner,” Teigen told PEOPLE in May.

Let’s all just live and let live, shall we, mamas?