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24th Dec 2018

Jeff Brazier opens up about how he and his sons cope with loss over the Christmas season

Rebecca O'Keeffe

It can’t be easy for them.

Christmas is a magical time of year for many, but it can also be tough.

Jeff Brazier has opened up about how he and his two sons cope around the festive season.

Nine years ago, Jeff lost his wife, and his son’s lost their mother, to cervical cancer.

The TV presenter, 39, took to Twitter to talk about Jade, and how  creative she was during the festive season.

 

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Can’t wait to share our beautiful wedding with you in @hellomaguk tomorrow. The boys’ speeches were ?? ?❤️??

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Jeff also shared advice on how to cope with the loss of a loved one during this time of year.

“It’s affected my family a great deal, in the early stages, it took two Christmas’ to work out that it didn’t matter how many presents we had under the tree,” he explained.

He continued:

“If we didn’t recognise their loss then it felt like there was an elephant in the room. We make the day about the loss first and foremost, their mum, and make it about the occasion secondary to that.”

 

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Brazier family trip to @matildathemusical for Freds birthday! All so excited! ❤️

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“My children want to celebrate Christmas but it’s just different. But it’s OK that it’s different.”

Jeff then went on to talk about how much Jade loved this time of year.

“I was never as good at Christmas as Jade was. She went to extreme measures, she made footprints in fake snow just to show that [Santa] had visited.”

We seriously commend Jeff brazier for taking time to discuss this.