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18th April 2016
03:08pm BST

For me, the biggest challenge has been going from being a beauty consultant to setting up in the commercial sector to taking the leap of setting up on my own. You realise that when you set up by yourself, you are everything. You’re the sales, you’re the marketing and you’re the IT. You can’t just pass it off to someone else and you have to be up to scratch on all fronts. You really have to put yourself out there. I also want to prove that, just because you have kids doesn’t mean you can’t do what you want to.
There is a lot of organisation from both sides. When I decided to take the plunge, I said that I was going to do it but that the kids can’t suffer. My husband and I have worked hard to get them into a routine. The whole point was that I didn’t want to put the kids into full-time crèche. Himself goes out at 6am and then comes back so I can go. It’s a bit like being in a tag team. We both decided that we could do this but we can’t work seven days a week either. I try every evening to be home by 6.30pm so that I can put the kids to bed and relax. Thankfully, with the help of my family and a good childminder two days a week, we are slowly finding the right work-life balance. That's not to say that we don't have very stressful times!
Becoming a mum is life-changing. I mean, you think you know what love is! When they hand you that child, it’s something else. You realise that you’d jump in front of a bus for them. It changed me in terms of my perspective and what I wanted. It’s a fantastic feeling but it’s also the hardest job I’ve ever done and it’s the only one that doesn’t come with training. Thankfully, I had the help of my mum for the first and second kids.
There's nothing better than heading away to a spa hotel or having days out with the kids. Even on cold days, we go to the beach. They love being out and about. It’s all about the simple things like having a glass of wine or watching a movie. I also do yoga on a Wednesday evening. I think it’s important to have something that’s your own.
If I could give one piece of advice to other mums thinking about starting up their own business, it would be not to overthink it. I did that for five years. I always had that fear. I’d say if you’re thinking of doing it, just do it. If I didn’t, I’d still be in my job thinking about doing it. The worse possible outcome is always worse in your head. If you’re passionate about it, it will do well.
Heaven is… being at home with a glass of wine and the kids tucked up safe in bed.
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