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04th Jan 2023

Does your toddler insist on taking their shoes off? This is what they’re trying to tell you

Sophie Collins

Shoes

If you have a toddler, then you will know the battle of keeping shoes on feet on all-to-well.

There are many reasons why little ones fling their shoes off, whether it’s out of the buggy, in the middle of the playground, or the second they come home.

According to the experts at fittingchildrensshoes.com there is always something a child is trying to tell you when they constantly take their shoes off.

“I have found that children who are constantly taking them off are trying to tell us something,” a spokesperson said. 

“That something may be that the shoes are too tight and pinching their toes. I will show you how to figure out your child’s exact foot size from home and make sure that your child is wearing the correct type of shoes.”

Other reasons include

Sensory Exploration

Toddlers are naturally curious and may remove their shoes as a way to explore the different sensations under their feet.

Comfort Issues

If they are too tight, uncomfortable, or unfamiliar may prompt toddlers to remove them.

Independence

Toddlers are developing a sense of independence, and taking off shoes can be an early expression of their desire to do things on their own.

Attention Seeking

If they notice that taking them off gets a reaction from adults, toddlers may repeat the behaviour for attention.

Ways to prevent it

Choose Comfortable Shoes

Ensure that they fit well and are comfortable. Measure their feet regularly, as toddlers’ feet grow quickly.

Opt for Velcro or Elastic

Shoes with velcro or elastic closures are easier for toddlers to manage on their own, promoting independence.

Engage in Positive Reinforcement

Praise and encourage your toddler when they keep their shoes on. Positive reinforcement can help shape their behaviour.

Distract and Redirect

If you notice your toddler attempting to remove them, redirect their attention to a different activity or provide a distraction to discourage the behaviour.

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