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18th November 2024
08:49am GMT
Returning to school is never easy, especially if your child is of primary school age.
Attending school for the first time can be quite an emotional experience for them and it's only natural for them to get upset.
If your kid has been crying at the school gates then know you're not the only parent dealing with this.
It may break your heart to see them so upset but there are many things we can do to support them and to make them feel better.
One thing experts swear by is to encourage them to talk and embrace whatever emotion they're feeling rather than telling them to stop crying.
Parenting experts believe that the best thing you can do is tell them it will be okay instead of saying 'stop crying'.
The ISPCC stressed that getting angry or forcing them into school also isn't the answer.
Children avoid school for many reasons, whether they're just nervous or because of deeper issues, but listening to them and supporting them through this difficult period is key.
The team suggests, "Focus on listening to your child and providing emotional support. Find out what are their triggers for school avoidance. Let them know what you can work together to improve the situation and help them feel better."
It's also important to remember that their fears and worries may seem small, but they're a big deal to them. Don't undermine their emotions, the ISPCC warned.
"It may seem to you that what your child is worried about is minor or unimportant but it is essential to listen to them, hear their concerns, validate them, and show that you care."
Another thing that makes both the parent and child feel better is checking in with their teacher. You should inform them of the problems your child is having because they'll be able to offer additional support when you're not there.
It's important for yourself to remember this is likely only a phase and they'll soon be skipping through the school gates and barely waving goodbye to you.
