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22nd August 2015
05:58pm BST

2 The Realist
Making Babies by Anne Enright
When I first discovered I was pregnant I was pretty terrified. I just didn't think I was cut out to be anyone's mother. Then I read this book and felt way better. Enright's initial reaction to suspecting she's pregnant is to get drunk. "Enright's kids are doing alright" I told myself. The book beautifully explores the essential absurdity of parenthood and taught me that I can be a mother and still be myself. Thanks Anne.
3 The Romantic
Great with Child: Letters to a Young Mother by Beth Ann Fennelly
One of my slightly older than me, infinitely wiser than me friends gave me this one. It is a collection of letters written by a college professor to a former student who is expecting, and it has a nice level of romanticism for when the hormones are raging, and you're feeling emosh.
4 The Pragmatist
How to Really be a Mother by Emily Hourican
This is one Irish mother's overview of the first 10 years of parenthood which may be quite a lot to swallow when the child isn't even out yet but I loved reading it for Hourican's practical and funny musings on family life. While at times it is terrifying (there are some things best kept hidden from the pregnant, like the fact that you may never go to the bathroom alone again) it is also very, very funny. In one anecdote, Hourican brilliantly describes arguing with her toddler son when he wanted to be fed on the DART (she was still nursing him). Hourican gave me hope that this parenting thing was going to be fun.
5 The Role Model
How to be a Woman by Caitlin Moran
What to say on this one... if you haven't read it? Read it. If you have? Take advantage of the bed and the bump and read it again. This woman needs a national holiday in her honor.
6 The Man's Perspective
The Best a Man Can Get by John O'Farrell
The protagonist of this novel leads a double life. He is a husband and father who frequently lies to his wife about work and travel to escape to a grotty flat a few miles away where he indulges in all the activities people with young children can only dream about, namely lying in bed and watching TV. It's brilliant.
7 The Mother's Perspective
The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan
The story of four generations of mothers and daughters, such a beautiful book.
8 The Family Saga
White Teeth by Zadie Smith
This sprawling tale of two families will get you all excited about making people of your own.
9 The Nostalgia Trip
To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
Pregnancy is the best time for rereading an old favourite. It vibes nicely with that all-over warm fuzzy feeling you're experiencing, in between anxiety attacks about giving birth and how the hell you're going to cope after the baby arrives. I love TKAMB so much that in my post-birth morphine haze I wanted to name the child Boo Radley.
10 The Project Book
Harry Potter 1-7 by JK Rowling
I would like to say that my 'project' was something worthy like War and Peace but actually I just reread the entire Harry Potter series. It was quite the undertaking.
And finally an IMPORTANT NOTICE – Do not under any circumstances read THIS BOOK during pregnancy:

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