Aaand we're back here again.

You know; stuck at home, not knowing if and when schools will open, wondering if you can even look at another banana bread recipe – that place. Again. Feel the stress and anxiety of spring starting to creep in? The bad news is that stress is actually seriously bad news for our health – especially when it lingers. As we can all agree it has been doing these past 12 months. However, there are some things you can do every day, to ensure you feel calmer and more in control, and ready to handle whatever these next few weeks throw at you. 1. Do a de-clutter of your home Clutter and mess are known to cause us anxiety and is a stress-factor, reminding us we have no time to tidy. And not only that, but it also stops our home from being our haven, the place we can really just lower our shoulders and feel our most zen. However, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed at the thought of tackling your whole house in one, frenzies Marie Condo-esque go. Which is why you might be better off by focusing on one area – at least to start with. Ask yourself this one question: Which part of your home is the messiest – or causes you the most stress? Is it the kitchen where every press could do with a clearing out? Your bedroom, which looks like an absolute tip? Or the dining table, which has become the dumping ground for everything from post and homework, to baskets with laundry that need folding? Whatever area bothers you the most, start there, and you'll soon realise you feel calmer (and more ready to tackle the rest of your house next). 2. Be strict about your bedtime routine Don't underestimate the power and importance of sleep – it is vital when it comes to beating feelings of stress and anxiety. It is so easy to try to catch up on adult time – or me time, even – after you finally get the kids to bed, as well as running around getting stuff tidied and everything ready for the next day. But to feel your best, and to give your body a chance to rest and recover, you need to make sleep a no-negotiable. Just like children, most adults also feel calmer with certain routines in place, and bedtime is the perfect time to be strict about a routine that actually helps get you feel relaxed and ready for sleep. Find a routine that works for you, be it a bath before bed, some hot milk, or even a few minutes of meditation, stick to this, and make sure you get at least eight hours a night – you will be guaranteed feel so much better and less stressed the next day. 3. Break a sweat every day (preferably outside) Exercise is proven to help us combat feelings of stress and anxiety, and so making time for at least a little bit of it every day will no doubt do wonders for your wellbeing, in many ways. Go for a walk, take the kids to the park and jog after them as they scoot or cycle, find an online yoga session on Youtube and do it on your living room floor. Don't make exercise complicated, just try to make sure you pencil some in every day, and you will soon see how much energy it gives you and how it just seems to melt away stress and feelings of anxiety. 4. Write down your schedule (and stick to it) I am a huge believer in that writing things down not only helps you get stuff done, and prevents you from forgetting about something that needs doing, but also helps you feel calmer – because you are no longer just juggling this do-to list in your head. Whether you use a planner or have a calendar on your fridge, it doesn't really matter, just as long as you write things down somewhere where you glance often, and hence will naturally know how your day looks and manage to stay on top of things. To get started, take a few moments on a Sunday afternoon and sit down and plan out your week. Write down everything you need to do and remember the different days, from dentist appointments to Zoom meetings you need to be prepared for. You can even schedule in things like yoga classes or a walk with friends – writing these things down makes you more likely to commit and stick to the plan. It can also be a good idea to in the morning, write yourself a little to-do list for the day, starting with the most important thing that you need to make sure gets done. That way, you'll always feel like you are on top of your life, and are less likely to feel like time is just slipping through fingers, causing you stress. 5. Practice saying 'no' – and do it often Admit it; sometimes you say 'yes' to things you would so much rather have said 'no' to. Helping out organising that baby shower for a friend of a friend? Hosting that big family dinner? Volunteering at yet another soccer bake-sale? Or even just accepting an invite to a party or social gathering you feel like you 'should' go to, when you'd rather have a night in with Netflix and your favourite pj's. We are all guilty – and we all need to get better at saying no when we mean it. Practise makes perfect, and becoming better at saying no – in a respectful, but firm way—is a crucial skill, trust me. Not only will it give you less stress, but it will also ensure you can manage your time better – and have the time to say yes to things that really matter. (Feature image via The Fox and She/Instagram)