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3rd November 2021
09:33am GMT
As a parent I can now fully understand what my grandmother meant when she said she didn't really like Christmas and that it was just for kids.
Christmas stresses me out like no other time or the year and the stress to get everything bought in time and to have the day itself be perfect, sucks all the joy out of the season for me.
It makes me wonder if it was always like this or if as modern day parents were putting ourselves under too much pressure.
When it comes to other parents starting their shopping early, I don't mind that, each to their own.
For me the stress comes when I feel like I'm getting the side eye because I'm not one of them.
To be honest, I feel like I'm the only mum who isn't ready to go come December 1st, adding even more stress to it all.
I personally just don't see the point in buying things way in advance, especially gifts for small children who are guaranteed to change their minds (hello Late Late Toy Show).
In general I think the pushing of Christmas shopping comes too early each year and it's part of the reason why parents feel they need to be shopping all year round.
Add to that toy shops saying that they might have a shortage this year (which they say every year).
As it stands I have not yet bought a single Christmas gift, I'll probably get started this month, but no, I'm far from ready.Explore more on these topics:
