This Is The Age Your Kids Need To Be Before You Can Leave Them Home Alone 4 years ago

This Is The Age Your Kids Need To Be Before You Can Leave Them Home Alone

While it is blatantly obvious to most of us (thank God!) that you should not leave babies or young children unattended for any length of time, never mind leave them home alone, the lines of what is acceptable gets a little blurrier as children get older. 

Back in the day when I was in school, there were a lot of children in my class who would have their house-key stuck to their school bags on a key chain and would, when school was over for the day, get the school bus home, lock themselves in and look after themselves for the couple of hours between they got home and their parents made it home from work.

My mum is a nurse and when she was either in work or asleep after having done a night shift, my grandmother, who lived near us, would look after me and my sister until my mum or dad got home, so no home alone time for us. But I vividly remember going home with friends whose parents did let them look after themselves for the afternoon and finding it terribly cool and sophisticated that they basically were all alone for hours.

Now, this was a fairly small town in Norway, and the much more innocent days of the early 90s, and I am happy to say that as far as I know, nothing bad or even remotely dangerous ever happened to these children who were allowed to stay home alone for the afternoons.

But things have changed since then, and now you can actually end up getting yourself prosecuted for neglect should you leave your child unattended and certainly if you let them stay home alone.

According to the NSPCC, their helpline always receives an increase in calls between July and September with concerns from adults about kids being left unattended, and last year, three-quarters of the 453 calls they received were so series, they were passed on to police or social services.

So what is the legal age kids can be left home alone?

Well, unfortunately, you will find that there isn't one. As in; the law doesn’t state a specific age when you can leave a child on their own, but beware, it is an offense to leave a child alone if it places them at risk.

“Use your judgment on how mature your child is before you decide to leave them alone, eg at home or in a car, this UK government website states.

“Parents can be prosecuted if they leave a child unsupervised ‘in a manner likely to cause unnecessary suffering or injury to health.”

In both the UK and Ireland, the law doesn't specify an age when you can start leaving your children unsupervised at home, but parents and carers can be fined or even sent to prison if they are judged to have placed a child at risk of harm by leaving them at home alone.

Here are some guidelines the NSPCC have issued that are a good place to start when trying to determine whether or not your child is ready to be left home alone:

- Babies, toddlers and very young children should never be left alone

- Children under the age of 12 are rarely mature enough to cope in an emergency and should not be left at home alone for a long period of time

- Children under the age of 16 should not be left alone overnight

- Parents and carers can be prosecuted for neglect if it is judged that they placed a child at risk by leaving them at home alone

- A child should never be left at home alone if they do not feel comfortable with this, regardless of their age

- If a child has additional needs, these should be considered when leaving them at home alone or with an older sibling

- When leaving a younger child with an older sibling think about what may happen if they were to have a falling out - would they both be safe?

If you are still unsure, you can read further advice on how to decide if your child is ready to be left at home alone on the NSPCC website.