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5th December 2023
11:56am GMT
Every parent knows the struggle of getting little ones to sleep on Christmas Eve, the excitement is sometimes too much.
If you’re already making plans to convince the little ones to bed before Santa arrives, sleep expert, Dave Gibson, has put together an in-depth guide of practical tips and strategies to help you.
Speaking with Vitabiotics, Gibson explained: "For parents with young children, Christmas Eve is possibly the most difficult night of the year for getting a good night’s sleep.”
He said the excitement around the arrival of Santa - and their presents - can overstimulate children and make it really difficult for them to fall asleep.
“Add the broken sleep patterns, early waking to open gifts, and the fear of missing out on the festive fun downstairs, and you have a challenging combination.”
Mr. Gibson went on to explain that the excitement of Christmas triggers the release of neurotransmitters in the brain - including dopamine and adrenaline - which make us feel more alert.
“This process increases wakefulness and suppresses the calming signals naturally occurring at night.
“However, understanding this process and implementing the right structures and routines can help you and your child get a great night’s sleep.”
So here are some of his top tips to avoid hassle on the night:
Gibson emphasises the importants of consistency in a child's sleep routine.
During the festive season, it can be difficult to stick to the usual nighttime drill, but "maintaining a consistent sleep routine amidst all the excitement, activity, and changes during the Christmas holidays helps to anchor our brain into feeling calm.
“With routine, our brains anticipate what follows and then prepare for and expect this to happen.
“Whether it's the regular bedtime story or the usual winding-down activities, your child will automatically expect to sleep by sticking to their normal bedtime routine, even during the excitement of preparing for Santa.”
Holiday plans can get in the way of our sleep routine, and it’s the same for kids so their bedtime may require slight adjustments over the holdiays.
The sleep expert recommends making gradual changes in the run up to your holiday plans - whether it's late-night visits or trips away.
“If you plan to allow your child to stay up a few hours later on Christmas Eve, possibly in the hope they will wake later too, I recommend staggering the change during the nights before with smaller steps so their body clock naturally adjusts to this time.”
Then, you can gradually undo the stagger from Boxing Day afterwards, to get back into sync with earlier bed times before school resumes.
Gibson explained: “Vice Versa, if the plan is to wake up earlier than usual on Christmas Day to open presents together, you are best setting this up by waking up earlier on Christmas Eve, too.
“For example, if your child’s usual wake time is 7.30 am for school and you are going to allow them to wake at 6.30 am on Christmas morning, you could set an alarm for 7 am on Christmas Eve.”
Gibson recommends "a bath, gentle music, and reading, selecting bedtime stories that are calming rather than exciting.
“Acknowledging the excitement and reminding children that a good night’s sleep will help them have the best Christmas possible encourages them to embrace getting to sleep.”
For older children, Gibson says there are some effective mindfulness techniques you can try.
"Teaching them mindfulness techniques to relax is a great tool to help them calm their minds, including breathing exercises and visualisation of calm places before sleep.”
It’s also important to know that the excitement of Christmas may trigger anxiety, so he advises creating an open space for discussion.
“If they are anxious at bedtime, writing a note on a piece of paper about what they are worried about and putting it away in a ‘worry box’ overnight can often help children with specific worries.
“Their worry is safe in the box overnight and can be taken out in the morning to talk more about after a good night’s sleep. Often, we don’t need to do this as everything always feels better in the morning, having slept on the problem overnight.”
Studies have shown poor sleep quality is significantly related to higher added sugar intake.
However, there’s no scientific evidence to back up this theory that sugar speeds children up and causes hyperactivity.
It’s thought that when we tell children that sugar will make them ‘hyper’, this sets up this behaviour as a ‘self-fulfilling prophecy’.”
Gibson recommends reducing sugar intake during the day, especially closer to bedtime and having an evening snack about an hour before sleep.
“Good bedtime snacks for young children include fruit, protein and fat, with protein and fat taking longer to digest and likely to fill them up more. Bananas work well as they contain magnesium, which is beneficial for sleep.
“Oatmeal with Greek yoghurt or cheese and crackers are excellent snacks to try.
“Combining carbohydrates and dairy is a great way to release an amino acid called tryptophan.”
Tryptophan aids sleep as it is a building block of melatonin, our sleep hormone.
Warm milk with honey is the perfect soothing bedtime drink, as the honey helps release tryptophan from the milk.
Managing expectations is crucial in ensuring a smooth Christmas Eve bedtime routine.
Gibson recommends discussing holiday plans, bedtime expectations, and potential changes in sleeping arrangements with children well in advance of Christmas Eve.
“This proactive approach will help garner cooperation, especially with older children who may want to negotiate an extension of their usual bedtime.”
"The first thing is to remain calm and centred yourself so that you can reassure your child that whatever is on their mind will be sorted in the morning, especially Santa’s delivery of their presents! Keep your interaction as simple and straightforward as possible to avoid stimulating their mind.
Always keep the lights dimmed as bright lights can prevent them from getting back to sleep, and never turn on technology or electronics as they will stimulate their brain, even if the blue light filters are used. Have a relaxation technique or two that you can use, which involves slow breathing and relaxing visualisations which can help them settle again.
The Progressive Muscle Relaxation technique can work well in these instances. Start by contracting each muscle group from the feet to the head. Your child breathes in during the contraction and then out in the relaxation phase.”
“If you can, plan your Christmas Eve activities so the day gradually calms towards bedtime.”
Morning: Gibson advocates for a structured approach to activities. He suggests beginning the morning with outdoor activities, which allow children to "expel energy and benefit from natural tiredness at night."
Getting sunlight first thing is also an important component for strengthening our body clock, which in turn helps us get to sleep more easily at night.
Afternoon: “After lunch is a good time for screen time and boisterous indoor activity. Ideally, you want to stop screen time two hours before bedtime.
“Having family time with a digital detox, where everyone in the family is off tech, including mobile phones, is a great way of setting this up.”
Evening: Transitioning into the evening, Gibson suggests embracing quieter activities for a soothing wind-down.
“Playing cards, engaging in a family board game, or participating in a gentle craft like drawing can help make things more relaxing as part of a wind-down period and try to avoid stimulating activities like party games.”
