becoming a dad

My wife never wanted to have children but now she has changed her mind

My wife never wanted to have children but now she has changed her mind

“My wife changed her mind after her first ultrasound” Deciding to have a child is a massive decision. It’s something many people dream of, but others may not want to become parents and that is perfectly fine too. Expanding your family isn’t something you do on a whim. One dad-to-be has opened up about feeling […]

4 years ago

If mothers have a ‘Mammy Mot’ then I think fathers need a ‘Dad Bud’

If mothers have a ‘Mammy Mot’ then I think fathers need a ‘Dad Bud’

I’ve found that women will always find each other when a crisis arises. Big or small, there’s always a friend or a mum or a sister that we can turn to for support. Particularly in motherhood having this sort of safety net is important and can help keep us sane. The way women look after […]

5 years ago

Mum-to-be writes a beautiful letter to her husband before he becomes a dad

Mum-to-be writes a beautiful letter to her husband before he becomes a dad

This is a Dear John letter but not as you would expect. This mum-to-be decided to write her husband a letter preparing him for how much their life will change once they become parents. I don’t think we fully comprehend how quickly our lives can change when we become parents but it really does. Like […]

6 years ago

Dad shares his daughter’s first day at school and yes, we are crying

Dad shares his daughter’s first day at school and yes, we are crying

“It wasn’t like this 60 years ago.” I nodded in agreement with the proud grandfather as a clatter of small children took to tiny desks and little seats. Doing the maths, I worked out it was 34 years since my own first day in school. The fact that details from that day, in late August […]

8 years ago

Ever heard of ‘fathering down’? It could help get your baby to sleep

Ever heard of ‘fathering down’? It could help get your baby to sleep

We’re always in the market for a tried and tested sleep tip here at HerFamily HQ.  Whether it’s progressive watching, the tissue trick or a daddy doing his best Darth Vader impression, what works for you is what works, period. The latest method we’re adding to the ‘give it a bash’ list is something called […]

10 years ago

7 Things Every Man Needs To Know When His Partner Gives Birth

7 Things Every Man Needs To Know When His Partner Gives Birth

Just a little heads up here, guys: there are rules about what to say and not say, do and not do after your wife or partner has delivered a baby. Haven’t heard of them? It’s because they’re generally unwritten – but if you need a gentle nudge, we’ve laid them all out for you. Read, memorise, go […]

10 years ago