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28th Aug 2024

The most annoying phrase dads hear has been revealed

HerFamily

These phrases are officially the most annoying

No matter what kind of father a man is to his kids, it looks like dads are still perceived a little differently to mums in society.

A new survey has revealed the most annoying phrase dads regularly hear is “You’ve got him well trained.”

Parenting website ChannelMum questioned 2,000 fathers in the UK for the research.

A third of dads said they hear patronising comments at least three times a week, even though the majority of those surveyed believed the parenting load is split evenly between themselves and their partner.

“Modern men are doing more parenting than ever before so that’s why it’s frustrating for dads when people are still surprised they can care effectively for their kids,” website founder Siobhan Freegard told The Independent.

Many of the phrases in the top 20, like “Are you babysitting today?” and “You’re such a hands-on dad” are more than a bit condescending, indicating that dads aren’t trusted as parents as much as mums are.

See the top 20 phrases below 

1. You’ve got him well-trained

2. You’re doing it wrong, it should be like this

3. Are you disappointed the baby wasn’t a boy?

4. Are you babysitting today?

5. It’s nice to see a man looking after the kids

6. Bet you can’t wait until your wife comes back

7. Wow, your baby is massive!

8. Get used to never having sex again now the kids are here

9. Who ironed the kids’ clothes?

10. Did your wife lay out the kids’ outfits for you?

11. There’s always one! (if you arrive late somewhere)

12. You’re actually quite good at putting on a nappy

13. Oh, you managed to make it here on time

14. You’re such a hands-on dad

15. You’re such a softie

16. Where is your partner?

17. Oh, you managed to remember to pack his PE kit

18. Is it hard to work full time with a baby?

19. Your baby seems really happy with you

20. It must be hard for you to get up early with the kids

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