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24th August 2021
04:30pm BST

Money may make life easier, but it doesn't make you a better or more valuable person. It's something I wish I realised sooner. I wish I wasn't embarrassed about where I came from or how 'little' I had compared to others. Did I still have a happy childhood despite it all? Of course, I did.
It was full of wonderful holidays to Cork, Donegal, and Wales. We danced around the sitting room on Saturday nights to S Club 7 with our cheap disco ball shining. We had picnics in my Dad's Nissan when the rain poured on trips to the local park.
Our birthdays were always celebrated and the table was covered in rice crispy cakes and packets of smarties. Dinner was always waiting for us when we got home from school and we never went to bed hungry. Sure we didn't go on fancy holidays abroad and sometimes we'd have slightly tattered school shoes, but we were happy and I wish that's what I focused on when I was a teenager.
But like any teen, I was worried about the things I didn't have, that sense of not being 'cool' enough or not having the fanciest mobile phone. I worried about my clothes, about missing out on days out because I had no pocket money left, and fretted about whether my house was as nice as my friend's who had the flat-screen TV and double extension.
If only I could go back in time and show my teenage self just how lucky she was. How lucky she was to live in a house with her family so close to her. How lucky she was to come from an area where the people are full of character and who always look out for one another. How lucky she was to live somewhere where people worked and grafted like there was no tomorrow.
To live somewhere where people looked out for one another. Somewhere where people knew what it was like to struggle but kept going anyway. Somewhere where people held their heads up high no matter what life threw at them. Somewhere where people didn't have a lot, but it was always enough.
How lucky she was to live just down the road from her grandparents. To have such a hard-working Dad and such a caring Mam, who gave up so much to raise her three daughters.
Being working-class is nothing to be ashamed of. It's something to be proud of.
I just wish I knew that back then, but at least I know it now.Explore more on these topics: