We had a big response to our article this week on whether kids have a place at weddings or not.
From casual comments such as 'It's really up to the bride and groom' to outright offence taken if an invite came through the door without the kid's names on it, we've heard a lot of very strong opinions.
And now we want to collect all of that information in one place so we would love you to take a moment and contribute your say to our poll below.
It's hard because you have to be totally black and white about your answer - just a yes or no - gulp!
We'll publish our findings with you all next week.
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