Parenting is stressful.
Cue the eye-rolls of parents everywhere, but there’s really no other way to explain it, though kids can be the light of your life they can be overwhelming.
Besides having responsibility for a tiny human, there’s always going to be someone telling you what you should or shouldn’t do.
On top of this, there are literally thousands of parenting styles to choose from including the Danish method.
Don’t worry, we’re not here to tell you to implement it but if it’s something you’ve heard of before and want to learn more, just keep reading.
What is Danish parenting?
Put simply Danish parenting is based on establishing a healthy relationship between parents and children from the moment the baby is born.
In this bond, the parents show the child that they care for them and teach them to become better versions of themselves in a supportive environment.
It takes an authentic, respectful and empathetic approach to parenting.
Ways to implement the Danish method:
Let kids play
One of the main things that Danish parents do is let their children play freely.
Instead of parent-directed activities, let them enjoy playtime on their own or in the company of other children, and encourage them to explore and discover the world on their own.
Be honest with your children
As adults, it can be easy to sugarcoat things for kids, to soften the blow.
Author of The Danish Way of Parenting Jessica Iben, suggests not over-praising your children.
For example, if they paint a picture instead of telling your child they’re an amazing artist, ask them why they chose the colours they did.
Promote togetherness
Danes regularly practice “hygge,’ a time of cosiness with friends and family.
It’s a daily part of life in Denmark. For parents, this involves time together with their children that encourages the whole family to work together, like a scavenger hunt.
It can also be something as simple as playing a game together or undertaking a craft project.
Reframe negative situations
Reframing is an invaluable skill to teach your children. When your child has a complaint, talk it out with them.
“It’s not about seeing life through rose-coloured glasses,” says Jessica. “It’s about listening for the positive details in your child’s stories and helping them focus on those details.”
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